One of the signs of maturity in an editor is the realization that she imposes different sets of “rules” depending on the client’s preference. There are few indisputable rules, the editor realizes, as she is exposed to more and more sets of preferences.
Today, National Grammar Day, is a day to celebrate the language we share, its structure and its quirks. Along with the grammartinis and grammar-themed baked goods comes an old debate over how much we should meddle with the language.
It's a tiresome debate, between prescriptivism and. descriptivism, a battle between two straw men. It’s not a real debate, because as with many areas of dispute, no one really subscribes to the absolutist view they are accused of holding.